Do you leave?
Turn your back on the group?
When you do all the supporting for others, when in reality you could be the one who needs it most?
Ok so I really don't want to go into it with too much detail however there was some uproar on my support group yesterday & it just made me feel like crap. Like what the heck am i doing? spending my 'lack of' spare time running this SUPPORT group for what feels like people just wanting to stir & make people unhappy.
I created the group, I can't leave; it;s almost apart of me. I take offence to people bad mouthing it. It' simple if they don't like the way I run it they should leave.
I personally feel that my support group is one of the best out there for Talipes.
Yes everyone is entitled to air their opinions; I get it I do. However I will not allow a heated debate. That then makes others unhappy.
It's just not fair.
It's almost as like we are going back to year 3 stuff... "If you have nothing nice to say, well don't say anything at all..."
Is it worth all the stress & tears it caused me yesterday?
Yes I know it is as I on the other hand have had mother after mother tell me how amazing & helpful the group has been....
Now to try & keep the peace & harmony.